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Consider getting a sensory cushion of air for their seat or a small bucket of dried beans with small animals hidden inside for them to find during sitting time. 

The fluorescent lights are likely flickering or the hum is loud and distracting to that individual. Consider natural lighting light fixtures or magnetic sensory covers for the ceiling lights.

Loud and unpredictable music is hard for many people. If earplugs won’t help, consider noise cancelling earphones hanging on a wall near the entrance. If a person needs them, show them they are available. Provide a bucket near the exit for the used pairs for easy cleaning.

It is very important to find out why they don’t like youth group and work on solutions to keep them with their age peers. It’s likely they are not feeling like they belong. Work with the family and youth to find ways for them to feel connected.

Food allergies/intolerances are more common than we realize. It would be an act of radical hospitality to ask EVERYONE if they have a food allergy/intolerance. Then, ask the cooks to identify if their dish has any on this list. If it’s store bought, make it a habit to keep and bring the original packaging so the family can check for themselves. 

If the volunteer is a female and one who likes her perfume… chances are very high the person is responding to the perfume. It could be causing headaches or sinus issues and the person doesn’t know how to tell you. Consider asking that volunteer to not wear perfume on the days she is serving. If that isn’t it… you must become a detective to find out why. All behavior is communication.